In a large bowl whisk together the flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt; set aside.
In a small saucepan bring together the milk, rum, egg, and butter.
Cook over medium-heat, stirring constantly with a whisk until the butter melts, about one to two minutes.
Remove from heat and add the milk mixture into the flour mixture; mix until combined.
Grease a doughnut pan with cooking spray.
Using a large tablespoon, spoon the doughnut mixture into the pan.
Bake for 12 to 14 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted comes out clean.
Remove and immediately invert the pan onto a cooling rack.
While the doughnuts are cooling, begin to work on the glaze.
Place the milk, lime juice, and powdered sugar in a small saucepan and cook over medium-heat, stirring constantly just until combined and no lumps appear.
Remove from heat and set the saucepan over a bowl filled with hot water.
Stir in the dried mint.
Dip the doughnuts into the glaze, one at a time, and set on a rack, glaze side up. Put a baking sheet underneath the rack because some of that glaze will drip off.